Lori's Minute

Saturday, June 10, 2006

Finally I know who I am

All these years I thought something was wrong with me. I finally found out I am an introvert. There was a huge article in the paper a few weeks ago talking about how parents should allow their kids to have their own personalities and how introverts need to be treated and handled differently than other kids. Hello? What, did someone out there expect everyone to be outgoing? Why did it take this long for someone to figure this out?

Well, I gotta say I was relieved because finally an article which says just because I am shy does not mean I am stupid or cannot learn anything. It pointed out several things that I connected with such as introverts like to watch and learn before they do something and they need downtime away from people to re-energize. I always thought I was different or anti-social because I liked being alone once in awhile. The article goes on to mention some people thrive on attention from others(extroverts) and some people are drained when they are around people too much and need to get away. The article ended by saying the world is a better place with introverts because they are the thinkers, inventors, the scientists, the artists and authors. I am an introvert and proud of it! So next time I crawl into my cave for several days, do not be offended, I am simply recharging my batteries.

Family Update: We did some cleaning this morning before heading out to look at an open house. It was very nice and handicap accessible with a great room but no finished basement. Pete and Breanna are at the arena football game.

Have a good one whether you are an introvert or extrovert.

9 Comments:

At 9:38 PM, Blogger Louisiana said...

do you know how much i loved the extra hug with an extra squeeze? i wish i could just go up to a counter in a mall or something and order one to go..like a slurpee or something...thank you Lori for your kindness...i'm very afraid but i'm starting to be even more afraid of always being afraid. Does that make sense? At the end i just need to see some family members that are pretty old and sickly and between that and my health we have been playing the odds game and i don't want something to happen and for me not to get the chance of a last hug or a last i love you in person. So i'm nervously and so very happily counting the days..20 more to go.

Now about your post: i'm so sad that you ever felt that there might something odd about you. I really do understand that. I wish i or someone could have been there to hug you and reassured you that you are and always were completely just perfect. It often happens that way. That if we aren't 100% the same we feel odd. I'm glad that you feel proud of who and what you are. For it's plain to see we all think you are just great. I don't know anyone who doesn't need to crawl into themselves once in a while. I think it is healthy whatever type of personality we are.
Open house? thinking of moving? i hope your market is good for buyers and that God finds for your lovely family the home right home. Sweet dreams honey.

 
At 9:38 PM, Blogger Louisiana said...

do you know how much i loved the extra hug with an extra squeeze? i wish i could just go up to a counter in a mall or something and order one to go..like a slurpee or something...thank you Lori for your kindness...i'm very afraid but i'm starting to be even more afraid of always being afraid. Does that make sense? At the end i just need to see some family members that are pretty old and sickly and between that and my health we have been playing the odds game and i don't want something to happen and for me not to get the chance of a last hug or a last i love you in person. So i'm nervously and so very happily counting the days..20 more to go.

Now about your post: i'm so sad that you ever felt that there might something odd about you. I really do understand that. I wish i or someone could have been there to hug you and reassured you that you are and always were completely just perfect. It often happens that way. That if we aren't 100% the same we feel odd. I'm glad that you feel proud of who and what you are. For it's plain to see we all think you are just great. I don't know anyone who doesn't need to crawl into themselves once in a while. I think it is healthy whatever type of personality we are.
Open house? thinking of moving? i hope your market is good for buyers and that God finds for your lovely family the home right home. Sweet dreams honey.

 
At 9:38 PM, Blogger Louisiana said...

do you know how much i loved the extra hug with an extra squeeze? i wish i could just go up to a counter in a mall or something and order one to go..like a slurpee or something...thank you Lori for your kindness...i'm very afraid but i'm starting to be even more afraid of always being afraid. Does that make sense? At the end i just need to see some family members that are pretty old and sickly and between that and my health we have been playing the odds game and i don't want something to happen and for me not to get the chance of a last hug or a last i love you in person. So i'm nervously and so very happily counting the days..20 more to go.

Now about your post: i'm so sad that you ever felt that there might something odd about you. I really do understand that. I wish i or someone could have been there to hug you and reassured you that you are and always were completely just perfect. It often happens that way. That if we aren't 100% the same we feel odd. I'm glad that you feel proud of who and what you are. For it's plain to see we all think you are just great. I don't know anyone who doesn't need to crawl into themselves once in a while. I think it is healthy whatever type of personality we are.
Open house? thinking of moving? i hope your market is good for buyers and that God finds for your lovely family the home right home. Sweet dreams honey.

 
At 7:17 AM, Blogger Dr.John said...

Believe it or not I am as much an introvert as you are. God just didn't allow me to hide.

 
At 3:17 PM, Blogger butterflies said...

Im definately an introvert.I love people but cant handle loud ppl for too long.I need my space too.My mothre used to make us do silly plays at church and I was always mortified!

 
At 5:45 PM, Blogger Catch said...

I am an extrovert and an introvert...lol. I love being with people but I also like my alone time. I have a friend who is very quiet. I think we make such good friends b/c we are opposite of each other.

 
At 7:25 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am A LOT like you! As much as I wanna be with friends. I get drained when I am. I need a lot of time to me or I just don't function right.

 
At 6:29 AM, Blogger B.R.L said...

I am an Introvert as you already probably know. Large groups of people make me umcomfortable. My roommate in college said I probably won't show up for my own wedding, she based this on the fact we had a social hour in the dorm and I said I would go with her. We got to the social room area she went ahead and I went back to our room. I saw all those people and couldn't handle it. I did enjoy my wedding however I was so happy and of course they were not strangers at my wedding.

I like my alone time.

Pennie did find some houses to look at. They are duplexes. That would mean we would have separate space, but she is afraid they wouldn't have enough storage area. We told her to look. It is hard to find something when you are happy with what you have.

 
At 7:11 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

oh yeah!! I am also an introvert and veeery proud of it!!!

I am an INFP btw.

I think, the world for an introvert is a veery challenging one. All those great ideas, great things.. hidden from society. :)

Anyway.. just dropped in. I searched for my t-shirt's title "Introvert and Proud" and found your blog instead. :)) have a niceday!

 

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