RP Convention
Next week I am heading to Kansas City to attend a conference for the Foundation For Fighting Blindness. It starts on Thurs. and ends on Sun. I will be going with another woman who also has RP but who has never gone to a convention before.
The first time I went to a convention, it was 1994 in San Francisco. It really opened a whole new world for me. For years, I had been told by doctors not to go to college because I will notbe able to work, don't have kids, etc. Very hard stuff to take as a 20 year old.
But, I went to college and got a degree and was working full time and had gotten married. Now at age 28, we were talking about kids but I wanted to go to this convention first.
I was so surprised....it seemed like most people who had RP, had families, had jobs, and lived their lives. The conference had sessions where I could learn more about my specific eye disease (Ushers type 2) which also includes a hearing loss. The best part of the conference is the networking session where you get to gether with other people who have the same condition as yourself. I have gone to two more conferences and that is always the best part. We are a feisty bunch!
While in San Francisco, my husband and I stayed a few extra days for sight seeing. We went to Alcatraz and met a guy who actually stayed there and had writtan a book which I purchased. We also went to see 'The Phantom of the Opera" and took a wrong turn walking back to our hotel and met some very interesting characters.
Another thing I remember is seeing homeless people for the first time. We were sitting in a restaurant and a guy off the street came in and took food from a table where people had eaten and left.
There was one good thing that came out of this trip, nine months later our first child was born.
3 Comments:
I hate it when people with handicaps are told not to "live." When the doctor told me [I was 18] that I would never be able to have children, he also told me I should never marry because I would only end up being a disappointment and a burden to my husband. You have no value because you cannot see. I have no value because my uterus is deformed ... pft. Our value is what we make it. I'm glad you decided to live your life.
Good for you!! It is amazing how things have changed over the years. I can remember reading the Helen Keller story and was quite taken with all the things she was able to accomplish during her lifetime. I guess it is true that life is what we make it.
And what a wonderful hild she is.
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